2022.01.24 10:59 kilroykarmichael Describing plant cultivars
What goes into naming plant cultivars? I've always been curious about an in-depth explanation about what the processes are when people name plants. TIA!
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2022.01.24 10:59 CinqueColonne In diretta dalla Camera dei Deputati, l'elezione del Presidente della Repubblica
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2022.01.24 10:59 beezy860 TRADE VOOCH
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2022.01.24 10:59 walkingdistances Can sites identify me if using Tor?
After seeing CreepJS I started to think Tor is not as good as I thought. As the ID is persistent, probably sites can still track me even on different sites. So, even if I start a new session they still know it's me.
I need to use Dark Reader plugin because my eyes are hyper sensitive, it's literally necessary, and default settings uBlock Origin because honestly the web is otherwise impossible to navigate. I never log in on any sites expect reddit.
Can sites know it's the same user over many sessions? If I visit the site on different moments, will they know it was the same person? How identifiable I am?
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2022.01.24 10:59 we_are_oysters [VA] Should I Be Concerned About My Attorney?
I’m having an issue with my ex and this sub was recommended as helpful and level headed. If you have the time, I’d appreciate your feedback. It’s hard to know where to start. I’m sure you can imagine how extensive some of these issues can be. Bottom line, I don’t feel like my lawyer understands my position and almost seems to be advocating for my ex’s request more than mine. So here’s my issue:
My ex and I separated almost 3 years ago and had draft separation agreement for 2.5 years until we finally signed divorce papers last year. The agreement was drafted using a neutral mediator without lawyers. Our initial draft agreement had a schedule in it for our kid (5yrs old at the time of separation) which we agreed to have 50/50 joint custody on. The agreement formalized an admittedly odd schedule that we had been basically following since before our separation (things were bad and we were basically living separately in the same household). It was kind of a modified 3/4/4/3 schedule with split weekends. Just a few months after the initial draft, my ex started asking for changes in the schedule and would continue to do so over the next 2 years. Changes varied in degree from changing pickup time a few hours, to shifting the schedule a whole week, to a completely new structure. The reasons also varied from things like wanting extra time to get breakfast from her favorite place, to claiming that I was not spending enough time with our kid, and then that I was spending too much time with our kid. She’d often frame it as though she were doing me a favor even though she was the one constantly asking for changes. She’d also ask me to take our kid (which I was always for) and then ask me to give up my time to pay her back for the time.
I agreed to many of the changes but started to get sick of it last year and started saying no. At one point she claimed I was being so inflexible that she wouldn’t even ask me if our kid could go to my ex’s mother’s birthday celebration if it happened to be on my time. She assumed I would say no and then claimed I was inflexible. I did not object to those types of changes and agreed to be flexible but asked that we stopped major changes and shifts. Soon after, she asked for some extra time with our kid because her brother’s, girlfriend’s, friend was visiting and she had a kid of about the same age. So, she wanted to do a little play date. I said yes. A few weeks later, I asked for some time with my daughter to visit my mom for her birthday. It was also a couple days before my kid left for her week long vacation with my ex. My ex did not want to give me the time and instead insisted that she would take our kid to my mother’s birthday. Then she started asking for other schedule changes in exchange for allowing my kid to go to my mother’s bday. I should mention that our separation agreement includes a clause that states our kid should be allowed to go to special events such as family reunions, weddings, and birthdays for immediate family. She finally let me take my kid to see my mom for a few hours. But continued insisting a new week to week schedule. At this time, we had signed our agreement and it was going through the court system.
Throughout this ordeal, many other things were happening like insisting that our kid needed therapy because of emotional disregulation. Of course, the only person my kid had issues with were her. Nevertheless, she also claimed that she was having issues with our kid because
- Our kid was repressed around me
- Our kid was having difficulty dealing with the divorce
- She is closer to our kid and our kid is more comfortable acting out with her
- She’s the mom
- I had a girlfriend and she didn’t have anyone
- Our kid didn’t feel comfortable being expressive around my girlfriend so all the negative feelings were held in until returning to her
- I have a yard
- I have a basement
- I stayed in our home while she moved out
- Transitions between home were so tense between us that our kid acted out when she was preparing to come back to me.
- Plus more
When I finally agreed for my kid to see a therapist, the therapist quickly determined that the issues (to the extent that they existed) were more related to parenting than anything having to do with my kid’s emotional disregulation. Specifically, consistency and modeling were a problem. These were the same issues I had with my ex when we were married so it wasn’t too surprising. Without getting too much into it, I’ve come to believe that my ex is likely a covert/vulnerable narcissist. We went to therapy for almost a decade and when I read about vulnerable narcissism, I feel like I’m reading about all the things I said in therapy about her. I also remember the first therapy session we ever went to when I asked for consistency from her. All this to say, I’m concerned about how she’s treating our kid and the effects of my kid being over there for longer stretches of time. Recently, my kid has started expressing that she doesn’t like going to mom’s as much and she expresses a lot of regret when she has to leave my place. She seems to have a lot more difficulties there and just likes it more with us. I’ve since remarried and my kid has a great relationship with her step-mother. My ex has been living with her boyfriend for almost a year and the relationship with my kid is not bad, but not great either.
Our divorce was finally signed by a judge last summer and almost immediately, my ex again asked that we change the schedule to a week on week off schedule to which I again said no. My ex insisted our kid was having difficulty with transitions so we needed to reduce them by having only one transition a week. When I refused, she said we needed to follow the schedule in our newly signed agreement as it was now a court order. I had to comply. Unfortunately, none of the changes that we’d made to the schedule over the last 2 years were in the agreement. The schedule in our agreement also has more transitions but she insisted on following it anyway. She then proceeded to make things as difficult as possible at every turn she could to include preventing our kid from being able to take her things between households. During the week, some of the transitions happened at school where I would take our kid in the morning and my ex would pickup from school. Some of those items could not or should not be taken to school (toys, clothes, etc) and I thought her solution of having my kid ask the teachers to store her stuff during the day was unfair to our kid. It’s bad enough she’s in a split home, no need to make it worse by having her take an extra bag of her belongings to school. I offered to pickup our kid just so that she could come get her stuff from my place, she said no. I offered my kid access to my home so my ex could bring her at her convenience to pick up her belongings, she said no. I offered to drop off our kids stuff at her place, she said no. The only other solution she would offer was a schedule change. Unfortunately, our agreement has so many ambiguities and loopholes that she is exploiting each one as much as possible and pointing to a week on week off schedule as the solution.
So, in comes my lawyer. I looked for the highest rated law firm in my area and met with a lawyer. The first one I met with was very blunt, she said my ex was acting like a terrorist. Also, she said I needed to put my foot down and stop agreeing to things if they weren’t in the agreement. Doing so would only make things worse. Also, it would be a good idea to modify the agreement to remove ambiguities as much as possible. Unfortunately, that lawyer left the firm and my case was moved to a new lawyer.
My new lawyer has also insisted that we need a modification to the agreement to solve these issues but has been less critical about my ex’s actions. While I agree that a mod is needed, I don’t agree that it would solve the issue of her being a pain in the ass. It’s a pattern of behavior that isn’t going away. It’s only a matter of time before my ex wants to do something different and starts making things difficult to get what she wants. A clearer less ambiguous agreement would make it more difficult for her to do that (which is why I’m for the mod), but not impossible. In any case, my lawyer also seems to be almost siding with my ex on various issues. The two most recent issues that have come up are as follows:
1-Our kid was invited to be part of a wedding party for my ex’s cousin. It’s a few months away but it’s over Easter weekend, which is allotted to me this year. The initial notification was that the wedding was on the 16th, the Saturday before Easter. Per our existing schedule, I was supposed to get my kid that afternoon and figured I would be getting her later that night instead so I said it was ok. A short time later, my ex sent me additional information that extended the activities to a day before and a day after the wedding and into Easter due to the location being several hours away. My lawyer’s initial response to my ex’s lawyer seemed strong, stating that cousins are not immediate family and that my ex was moving the goalpost by asking for the 16th, then adding on a couple days afterwards. But then, my lawyer recommended to me that I let my kid go and either have her come back on Easter Sunday mid-day or exchange Easter Sunday for the following Sunday. Problem is, the following Sunday is already my day. I would be exchanging an entire holiday Sunday for a Sunday that’s already mine.
2- Before each summer, my ex and I are supposed to come up with a summer schedule that splits the time 50/50. Since my ex is a teacher and has summers off, the schedule needs to be modified to achieve a 50/50 time split. Otherwise, she gets lot of extra time that I don’t get. This is acknowledged and stated in our agreement. My solution was to follow the plan we had the first year which was to enroll our kid in summer camps throughout the summer which would basically take place of school in the schedule. That way, we could keep the same schedule as the school year and maintain a 50/50 time split. That didn’t happen the last 2 years because of COVID, but nonetheless. Of course, my ex is refusing to sign her up for any summer camps and has stated that she plans on just having the extra time throughout the summer, giving her more than 50% of the time in violation of our agreement. My lawyer has recommended that I do what my ex is asking because it’s causing a lot of problems. Frankly, I’m amazed that she’s proposing this. To me it seems that doing so will simply invite more issues in the future. In fact, I feel like the reason this is happening now was because I was too agreeable to begin with. My lawyer is very highly rated from the best firm in the area. But I don’t know what to make of this. Am I being unreasonable, too harsh on my lawyer? Should I be concerned that my lawyer is not fully on my side and may not advocate for me as strongly?
If you’ve read all of that, thank you. If you have the time to give me some feedback or just thoughts, I would really appreciate it.
TL;DR My ex is demanding changes to our separation agreement and is making things very difficult unless I agree to her demands. My lawyer is recommending I do what my ex is asking for because she’s otherwise going to make things difficult. Should I be concerned that my lawyer will not advocate for me very strongly? Should I seek a new lawyer?
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2022.01.24 10:59 cuevadanos What is the socializing scene like in Ireland?
Hello, I am a student who will start university very soon, and hopefully in Ireland (probably Dublin). I would be an international student.
I'd like to hear about what socializing is like at university age in Dublin and in Ireland, in general. What should I do, and not do? What should I expect? Especially, what should I NEVER do?
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