2021.09.25 03:16 itzmizzyyy My marriage dilemma that I don't think anyone can relate to...
I'll just cut to it, and then explain more. I don't want to be married anymore. Disclaimer: there's no abuse, infidelity, or any fundamental conflicts in my marriage. This is a personal issue.
I (29F) and my husband (29M) have been married for 7 years, no kids. We got married right after graduating, after dating for 3.5 years in college. I loved him, and never had any doubts about marrying him. He is the most loving husband, and has handled my emotional issues really well. My depression makes me pretty irritable and unkind at times, but he's always stuck with me. The first few years of our marriage, I felt fine about it, but for the last year, I've been wanting to leave it. I don't know if it's this pandemic getting to me, or that I've changed as a person, but I just don't want to be with him anymore, and I don't feel like I love him.
I am a major loner, and was never the type to obsess over marriage and relationships. We just happened to meet, fall in love, and decide to get married. But as we get closer to 30, the idea of buying a house, having kids, and doing life with him doesn't feel like something that I want to do. (FYI, he has told me that it's okay if I don't want to have kids, and that he would still want to be with me.) I want to be on my own, and live my life without being attached to another person. He travels for work semi frequently, and I pretend to miss him, but it's always the best time for me. Every time he comes back, I'm disappointed, but try to put on a happy face, while counting down in my head until the next time that he leaves. Being home with him all pandemic has made me want to get out and away from him. I go on extra long walks, take my time at the store, and make a lot of plans with my friends.
It started getting worse when I started wishing for divine intervention to end my marriage. I can't imagine him cheating on me, but deep down I wish he would (I know, it's terrible) or even worse, sometimes wishing he'd die in an accident or something (I know, it's REALLY terrible). It's not that I want him dead, I just don't feel like I have a legitimate reason to leave this marriage, so I wish there was a way out that didn't result in his pain. I've expressed SOME doubts to him, framing it as if I'm just anxious about the future, and he always responds lovingly and tells me that he's always here for me. It makes me sick inside because he is a great guy, and deserves to be loved unconditionally by someone, I just don't know if it's me. I've just grown up, changed a lot, and realized that I don't think marriage is for me. Lots of people think that, but those people are usually single, or in terrible marriages. I truly just want to be on my own, and free. I don't care about other guys or relationships, and genuinely don't think I would ever marry again.
I just don't know what to do because this is a feeling that I've had for about a year, and it isn't going away. He has no idea. And I definitely don't see how I could be open and honest with him without really hurting him. I love him as a friend, and I think I could stay with him, and we could have a decent life together, but I would so rather be out on my own. I feel so trapped and confused, and I've never known anyone to be in this situation, so wondering if there's anyone here who has.
TLDR; I don't want to be married anymore, but have absolutely no reason to feel that way.
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2021.09.25 03:16 waitingforpopcorn Marine Ways app icon meanings?
I like the app, but don't see anything that gives the description of all the icons and such. I'm not a chart person, obviously, and don't have anybody else to ask. The Google hasn't helped much either. Thanks
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2021.09.25 03:16 SousaDogemillionaire Don’t ever forget…
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2021.09.25 03:16 NORDLAN One of the most secretive and powerful groups in GOP politics just had its cellphone numbers leaked. Here's what its members said about Trump 2024 when we started calling.
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2021.09.25 03:16 ChocopixNFT 🚀 What have we got there? ChocoPix 371, 340 and 377 are on the sky, but one of them does not seem serene 👀 - 💎 Only 377 is still available, the other two have already been adopted! ✅ Who will be the lucky one to get it ? 🔥👇
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2021.09.25 03:16 _AgainstTheMachine_ Second Cabin Four-Berth Cabin on the "Umbria"
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2021.09.25 03:16 Third_attempt1 Need to send gifts for a task
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2021.09.25 03:16 Ahmed_Omar12 Pre-Order: Outcast 2 (PS5) $69.99 via Amazon (Prime Eligible).
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2021.09.25 03:16 verystrangebeing [Upcoming] iOS-Restrictions-Recovery is being updated for iOS 12-14! | Screen Time/Restrictions passcode finder on iOS 7-14
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2021.09.25 03:16 Dig-Programmatically From the waitlist, what is the number that indicate people are interested to join
Hello , not sure when but within this week i posted about my idea. The response was around 50/50 some say the idea bad and some say they will want to use it . Then I open for mentor waitlist at crackpen.com . Within a week i get around 20 waitlist. My question is:
2021.09.25 03:16 Soul699 My in-depth theory about why Momo's fruit was deemed a failure
Because Vegapunk saw it had pois instead of spirals and deemed it as such. Yeah, remember how the fruit was? Simple as that. He saw it, said it didn't work and put it i display as a failed product. Or maybe did try on someone and noticed it did have the right effect but Vegapunk was a perfectionist so due to the shape he just said: Nope. Still bad.
And don't say it won't happen, because that's the kind of silly thing I would expect from One Piece.
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2021.09.25 03:16 poo1232 Found This lad in my closet
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2021.09.25 03:16 J-trayy Defining my type of deism
Hello I'm having trouble finding my branch of deism here are a few things I believe 1. There has to be some sort of diety that keeps everything going / Started everything 2. There is no way we will ever be able to tell what said diety wants 3. The diety has very little interactions with what happens in this reality 4. Religious texts are made by humans and do not reflect the real diety 5. There are no profits, only one all-powerful being 6. There is no afterlife or beforelife there is only life 7. I believe in personal morals, not commandments 8. This diety is an evil one as he has the power but refuses to prevent "evil" from happening 9. The purpose of life is to follow your dreams and live a happy life (for me it is to leave this earth, and my children are set up to also have a happy life) 10. The quality of life and success is defined by the positive change you make with society and with individuals 11. Karma does not exist (that would be what number 8 was talking about) 12. I believe humanity should have never existed (depressing I know), actually to further that, I believe that nothing should exist not even nothingness
I've done researching and I think I most closely fit a semi-agnostic neo-deist just looking for other view points
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2021.09.25 03:16 tigertailboss1 Help with Chessex Battlemat
Hey so I picked up a chessex mat today and noticed all these weird white threads along the sides of it, I cut some of them but I wasn't sure if this was normal or not as I haven't hear of anyone else having this issue, so is it just me or is it a common problem?
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2021.09.25 03:16 symbifox Obstructions without instructions? What could be causing such a regular obstruction when there’s nothing indicated as an observation?
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2021.09.25 03:16 Rush_In_Spy A question about how units work
So a unit of necron warriors can have more than or less than 10 models right? And if that is so, does that effect the point cost? Like would it go up or down depending on the models in the unit or would it just stay the same point cost?
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2021.09.25 03:16 MarcusTheGreat [Playstation] [H] Titanium White Interstellar [W] Credits
2021.09.25 03:16 FlyNorth69 To Nelk,
First video was the coke prank over 4 years ago and I’ve never missed a video since. You boys inspire me to never give up no matter what cause you guys were bashed and just kept going didn’t stop for nothing. If something got in your way you boys figured away around it. Y’all really helped me the past 4 years throughout all the depression and dealing with bad family problems at home and I couldn’t thank you guys more. You guys saved me.
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2021.09.25 03:16 Audlife_Freedom 🌳
2021.09.25 03:16 GrandSufficient9917 The fellow members of the SCP Gacha community is ruining my life... (Cursed warning)
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2021.09.25 03:16 Colinzz Legitimately just wondering, does anybody else feel like SBMM has completely ruined the enjoyment of the game for them?
My games are just... incredibly sweaty now. I have 3.4k hours and every match is just extremely good survivors with great perks. I lose 4/5 matches because these survivors are VERY good, and I have the opposite problem against killers. They're all fucking brand new killers with less than 200 hours, or they're just running ruin/undying/tinkerepop or something similar.
Now, before people say "you're just mad you're not winning against baby survivors/killers", my issue right now is that it's EVERY GAME. I have to try so fucking hard to win against these survivors EVERY. SINGLE. GAME. And they're better than me, straight up. It's fucking exhausting.
It's fine to have to lose a couple matches, but to play 3, 4, 5 matches in a row where it >feels< like you never even had a chance? It is so fucking frustrating.
It's not even a good MMR system. One of my friends in my group is our worst survivor by far, but he always hides the entire match and gets hatch to escape. Because he has way more escapes than us, his MMR is way higher. The match difference is night and day when playing with him vs. without him.
Just... it makes me sad. I literally am so disappointed that they did this to this game. I want to play, but when I do it's just fucking frustrating.
Am I the only one feeling like this?
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2021.09.25 03:16 jvin1234 How I started to watch
Growing up in my household wasn't all that easy. It was very stressful, but my escape was always youtube I always lived the life I wanted through the people I watched cause at the time I thought my life was pretty sucky. I used to watch prank videos to make me laugh after school and so my feed or suggested would have a big variety of stuff similar to that and I came across the starbucks employee prank and it had me dying lmao. I started to watch more and more then got hooked next thing I know I've watched majority of the vids and up to date to the newest ones. Your videos are the type of videos where you don't have to skip through because everything in them is interesting/funny ! appreciate you guys for always making me laugh through the good and bad times keep up the good work
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